Sex games need not be a do-it-yourself project. A lot of couples feel that sex games need a lot of planning and preparing of items to be used in sex games. This is not true at all because the adult market has tons of sex game products that you can use as part of stimulating your sex life.
A lot of these products are not expensive at all. From $5.00 to $30.00, you can get yourself a fun sex game that can bring a whole new dimension to your sex life so do try them!
A Quick Review of Sex Game Products in the Market
Deluxe Spin the Bottle
Make ’spin the bottle’ a whole naughtier with this sex game package. This product includes a bottle that spins on top of a wheel that also spins! If the bottle lands on you, your partner gets to do whatever action is indicated on the wheel below the bottle head. Some games offer more actions than others so it’s up to you guys what to go for. Another exciting element to this sex game is that it can involve just you and your partner… or others.
Treasure Hunt
If thinking up of places to hide and what to hide takes up too much of your time, why not just buy a Treasure Chest game package. This product often includes a `suggested map’ already, suggestions on what to hide, and a cute treasure chest where you should place your most desired sexual act!
Adult Deck
Let’s face it; thinking up 52 different sex positions for every card in a deck CAN be daunting. So why bother? Just go out and buy a sexed-up deck of cards in any sex shop. You’ll have the sex fun without the hassle of creating them.
Sexoku!
You guessed it; this sex game product plays on the familiar numbers game called Sudoku. If you’re into more than just physical pleasure, you’ll enjoy this sex game as it involves mental pleasure as well. This product offers a booklet where you and your partner can play sex puzzles, engage in sex trivia, answer quizzical sexual experiences, and others!
Erotic Strip Poker Cards
Bring strip poker to a whole new level by using these specially-made erotic cards. So instead of just taking off one of your clothes pieces when you lose a hand, you may find yourself doing a sexual deed instead of being `ordered around’ to do a naughty deed.
B&D Packages
For beginners who don’t know quite how to start in bondage and domination games, there are plenty of B&D sex packages you can purchase. These packages can include step-by-step instructions, and even materials such as a pair of handcuffs, satin, blindfolds, and others.
Printed Rose Petals
The sight of rose petals scattered all over the floor and/or on top of the bed always conjures romantic thoughts, doesn’t it? This time, bring a naughty element to this romantic idea by using faux rose petals with seduction tips printed on them! The simplest of these products contains about 200+ petals (advanced ones can have thousands of petals) so you can easily come up with your own seduction suggestions. Simply leave a sexual trail for your lover to follow! Their romantic and reusable, what more can you ask for in a sex game product?
Stripping a Rose…
Another popular sex game product is the faux rose. Give it to your lover and ask her to peel one petal off. Inside this petal is a hot foreplay activity that you guys can engage in! The great thing about this product is that the activities indicated on each layer of petals get hotter! For example, the first petals may be all about foreplay but as you near the center of the rose bud, you can bet more exciting sexual pleasures lay ahead!
Adult Candy Bowl
This sex game product is perfect in your bedroom. This mix of candy includes items such as gummy male genitalia rings, flavored lubes, chocolate body sauce, and others! If you’re in the mood, simply deep your hand in the bowl and fish out a sweet and naughty candy treat. This simple sex product really increases sex activities because it is such a simple, yet effective way to think of sex all the time!
Anus Chocolates
Chocolates are known as aphrodisiacs. As such, this is a great way to include food items in your sex life AND embark on pleasuring that part of your bodies that seem to be `forbidden’ for a lot of couples.
For this sex game, indulge in a night of feeding and eating frenzy. You can use whipped cream, peanut butter, fruit, and of course, for some `behind the scenes’ action, use these anus chocolates!
There are tons of other sex game products out there. Check them out and see which ones suit you guys best.
Undoubtedly one of the best places to indulge in sex games is in the bathroom. Jut think about it: the scintillating smell of the bath soap, the sexy suds, the cascading water over your bodies… sexy! However, before you engage in sex games under the shower or in the bathroom, you should never forget certain `rules of engagement’.
Sex games rules are very important especially if you guys are just starting out to include sex games in your relationship. It is quite understandable that one of you (or both) is not that comfortable yet with sex games for many reasons, such as fear of embarrassing yourself, fear of being pressured into doing something that you really don’t want to do, fear of physically (and thus, emotionally) hurting your lover and vice versa, and many others.
To prevent these problems, it is imperative that you and your lover establish certain ground rules when it comes to bathroom or shower sex games. Doing so has the following benefits:
You’re forced to open up and discuss things that may or may not be bothering you regarding bathroom sex games.
You establish certain thresholds, which in turn make you more comfortable in engaging in shower sex games in the first place.
You establish deeper trust in your relationship.
Basic Sex Game Rules
When you pre-agree on certain things regarding sex games, you’ll be more comfortable engaging in them and thus enjoy them more! Following is a quick rundown of common sex game rules.
Agree to both have an open mind.
Shower and bathroom sex games bring certain `dangers’ to mind in many couples: slipping on the tub, banging your head against the wall, slipping and breaking your arm, etc. HOWEVER, why focus on the negative, right?
When you bring sexual playfulness into your relationship, it’s important to establish right at the start to keep and open mind. Do not say no to something for fear of the unknown. Instead, give it a try! Who knows, you might end up liking it way more than you ever thought.
Agree to surprises.
One of the most wonderful aspects of sex games is the surprise factor. As such, don’t be so hung up on `needing’ to know what’s going to happen. Just relax and try it. Think of it this way: the experience will reveal to you just how far your lover will go when it’s up to him/her to surprise you with a sex game.
On the other hand, if you’re the one surprising your lover, be responsible. For instance, you know that things can get very wet and wild inside the bathroom during a sex game so make sure rubber mats, rubber bathtub pillows, towels and maybe even a chair (to aid in getting in and out of the bathtub properly) is there to ensure safety at all times.
Agree to have a STOP word.
Not everybody has the same level of sexual playfulness inside or outside the bedroom. As such, it’s important that you guys establish a STOP word that you can use during sex games to indicate that the game has reached a certain personal threshold.
When this STOP word is used, the other must fully respect the other’s wishes and stop (or downplay) the sex game. This word must be treated seriously. If you still continue despite your lover saying the STOP word then trust in your relationship takes a serious downturn.
Agree to how much `information’ leaves the bathroom.
Let’s admit it. It’s nice to be known as the `stud’ who engages in sex games and wild lovemaking with his partner. Unfortunately, your lover may not agree to this information being leaked to all your friends. But then again he/she may be ok with it! You’ll never know until you discuss it and agree to discuss or not discuss your wet and wild activities with others.
Some couples also like to engage in a little erotic video recording while doing their sex games. If you guys try this out, pre-agree on where to keep the video and if you guys should keep this just between the two of you or if you’re ok if it’s seen by others. Also, on the remote chance that you guys ever breakup, discuss now what’s going to happen to that video. Unless of course, you both want to be Internet stars.
Bath and shower sex games are truly great ways to spice up a relationship. Talk about it with your lover and discuss and pre-agree on the items above. These will ensure that you engage in sex games truly comfortable with one another.